How to Boost Your Confidence
and Achieve Your Goals.
Self-confidence is defined as: “noun: a feeling of trust in one’s abilities, qualities and judgement”.
Negativity all around.
In life, people around us – at home, work places, and even friends, often do their best to put us down – telling us that we are not good enough to trust ourselves, our abilities or our judgement.
Such continued negative talks from people around us usually make us feel inadequate, and we start to lack self-confidence. When you lose confidence in yourself and your abilities, life can be bleak.
To begin, you need to watch your own “self-talk” – the constant
negative voice in your own head..
“I can’t do this..
Instead say: “I can’t do this yet, but I can learn how.”
“I am not good enough”
Say instead: “I am good enough just as I am, but I can improve if I want”.
“I am ugly”:
Say instead: “I am as beautiful as God made me and happy with me!”
“I don’t have the ability to do that”.
Say instead: “If others can do that, I can too. I just have to learn how”.
“I am so dumb..every one tells me so.”
Say instead: “I am not dumb. I don’t care what other people think or say!”
“No one likes me.”
Say instead: “I don’t need other people’s approval in my life. I like me.”
and so and so forth..
Learn new Skills to Acquire Competencies.
In order to develop your self-confidence, you will need to acquire some competencies. Learn and master new skills, so, if necessary, you can teach others the same.
It can be in any field, carpentry, art, academic subjects, sports, knitting, cooking, gardening, games, and so on. Once you have acquired some competencies, find ways to show off your new skills to family members, friends, work colleagues, etc, so you can be seen to be an “expert” in your chosen field..
That will certainly boost your self-confidence!
Set SMART Goals.
It is important to set goals in your life. The trick of success and in creating a positive self-esteem is by achieving small successes one after the other, and then celebrating those successes.
When you “pat yourself on the back” for a success, however small, your confidence is boosted and you are more ready and more able to achieve more successes in your life.
My eBook, “How to Boost Your Self-Confidence And Achieve Your Goals” has many more strategies that can help you over-come your own limiting beliefs so you can begin to “shine” and show off your skills and abilities to the world.
“HOW TO BOOST YOUR SELF-CONFIDENCE AND ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS”.